Yesterday was blog writing day. The day I pick a topic and do my first draft for my weekly blog post. I usually breeze right through this task and it’s fun creative writing time.
And yet, yesterday the hours ticked by…vague ideas came and went…all were dismissed. The page sat empty staring back at me.
I’m also in the midst of editing my book. My agent is emailing me, “when will you have the manuscript to me?” So of course every minute spent trying to write my next blog stressed me out to no end because I wasn’t getting any editing done…and the writing wasn’t happening either!
I turned to my favorite place for inspiration, Pinterest. An hour later I had many pins waiting in the Buffer queue to be posted, but alas nothing spoke to me.
I scanned through Facebook and Twitter. I Liked, Commented, Tweeted and Followed. But no blog ideas.
I read other people’s blogs. Surely that would help. Hours flowed onward. Nada.
It was late. And I had nothing. My chest began to tighten with anxiety. Not good.
I normally enjoy writing my weekly blogs. So why the torture and stress this week?
That’s when it struck me. I’d inadvertently put this heavy burden of stress upon myself by dwelling on the fact that instead of writing my blog, I really wanted to be editing my book. In my mind, my online obligations of posting a weekly blog were getting in the way of me being creative. I was resentful.
But that was a lie to myself. Coming up with a topic and writing a blog every week takes some serious creative energy. I know this from experience. Writing my weekly blog has given me the opportunity to write outside my novels and find my own voice. But it’s hard work. So what this ultimately boiled down to was, I didn’t want to do the hard work. I wanted to play in my fictionalized make-believe world with my characters.
So, what did I do? I frittered away hours of time on Social Media as an excuse, instead of facing the blank page and just freakin’ writing something!
The Hero’s Journey
Once I sat myself in the chair and simply started writing…this blog came about. I could’ve done that many, many hours sooner. As a writer, I know this simple truth and yet I still avoided facing it, and Social Media gave me a handy excuse.
Don’t get me wrong, having an online presence in today’s market is imperative if we wish to share our writing, art, music—whatever our passion may be—with the rest of the world. And it’s been a wonderful resource for me as I expand my knowledge base and grow as a person and writer.
Which brings us (in a long round-about way) to my point of this blog. How do we keep up our online presence and balance it with time to write (insert your creative passion here) keep moving forward and meet deadlines?
Most days I maintain a balance by implementing tips I’ve learned over the years:
• I focus on writing the first thing in the morning, for a 3-4 hour stretch.
• During writing time I stay off email.
• Before bed, I make a list of online tasks for the next day and highlight the priorities. Once writing time is over, I start the list. Once the priorities are done, other tasks can move to the next day, if necessary.
• I routinely take time out for physical activity away from sitting at the desk, a walk outside, or at the least some yoga and exercise.
But it’s easy to have our day get knocked out of balance by a multitude of outside influences…many of them online. Even the tone of the posts we read, whether they are positive or negative can greatly change our attitude for the moment, or the rest of the day. So how do we better manage our online time to better enhance our creative time?
A blog posted back in January of this year, from Jane Friedman inspired me – and I do attempt to adhere to the points made most days. Yesterday was one of those days when I should’ve reread it the moment I found myself stymied, instead of hours later and in panic mode. You may already know a lot of this stuff, but I’m sharing the link with you today to jog our memories. It helped me get back into my groove yesterday and I hope the timing works for you as well.
I encourage you to check out her blog: 10 Resolutions for a Saner Online Internet—and Life
In what ways do you maintain a balance in your life?